CCTV News:Recently, a parent of a primary school in Beijing posted a message on the Internet, saying that his child had been bullied by his classmates for a long time, and was even beheaded by his classmates with a toilet garbage basket. After the incident, the child developed symptoms such as insomnia, irritability and fear of going to school, and was diagnosed as an acute stress reaction. Parents then reported to the school and Haidian District Education Committee.
At present, the school has responded to this, saying that "the school will continue to make efforts to achieve the results recognized by many parties" and called for "returning education issues to the campus for processing".
Mother posted on the Internet that her child was humiliated at school.
Yesterday, an article entitled "Every mother and son are friends of life and death, I want to accompany him to say NO to campus bullying" was widely spread on the Internet. The author of the article claims that she is a mother and her son is a student of Zhongguancun No.2 Primary School. She just turned 10 and was bullied at school.
The article writes that on November 24, when my son went to the toilet in the school toilet, two boys in the same class entered the toilet.One of them blocked the door and said, "I want to open the door to see your ass", while the other threw down a garbage basket with toilet paper and urine. "It’s hitting my son’s head, and urine and shit-wiped paper spilled all over his face.When the two boys saw it, they ran away with a burst of ridicule, which took less than a minute. "After the incident,Her son’s face was filthy and he cried and cleaned himself up. On that day, the child did not report to the teacher. She and her husband learned about it that night.
Yesterday, a reporter contacted the author’s husband Wang Chuan (a pseudonym). He told reporters,Pengpeng (pseudonym), a boy who blocked the door that day, was far taller and heavier than his son, and harassed his son for a long time. "Give him a nickname, laugh at his family’s economic situation, and bully him since he was in the fourth grade."Another boy, Guo Guo (a pseudonym), who throws garbage baskets, is friends with pengpeng, and often cooperates with pengpeng to bully his son together.
The screenshot of the chat provided by Wang Chuan shows that he has communicated with pengpeng’s parents many times and asked them to control their children’s behavior. In the chat on October 20th, pengpeng’s mother replied that she had asked Peng Peng about the situation, saying, "There are indeed cases of touching, and he has been seriously criticized. As for bullying, he has no subjective consciousness. If you or your son feel bullied, we will also remind pengpeng that there will be no physical contact in the future. "
The child was diagnosed with acute stress reaction.
Wang Chuan said that after the incident, his son developed symptoms such as difficulty in falling asleep, irritability, desperate need for company, and emotional excitement. "He would cry because of very small things, and cry several times a day. There are also several times when I hide under the desk. "
According to the medical certificate provided by Wang Chuan, on December 2nd, his son suffered from acute stress after a preliminary diagnosis by Beijing Sixth Hospital. It is understood that acute stress reaction, namely acute stress disorder (ASD), refers to a transient mental disorder that occurs within a few minutes or hours after suffering from a sharp and serious traumatic event. Generally, it is relieved within a few days or a week, and the longest is no more than one month. Wang Chuan said that because things have not been solved, his son is still resting at home.
△ The diagnosis shows acute stress reaction.
Negotiations between the two sides failed.
On the second day after the incident, Wang Chuan and his wife and son communicated with the school, the students involved and their parents. The parents of the students who threw the garbage baskets apologized, but the parents in pengpeng refused to apologize on the grounds that the children were only witnesses. "The teacher described it as ‘ Excessive jokes ’ It also makes us big and small, which we can’t accept. "
Since then, Wang Chuan has reported this matter to the Haidian District Education Committee and demanded:
The school characterized the behavior of pengpeng and Guoguo, and informed criticism recorded it and took corrective measures to educate and punish them.
Ask the parents of the two to apologize in writing and read apology book in the presence of three children
Bear the expenses of his son’s professional psychological intervention for children
I hope the school will also protect my son’s physical and mental safety during school, so that he will not be hurt twice because of his status as a victim.
Teacher Li, who is in charge of moral education in Zhongguancun No.2 Primary School, said that the school has been actively handling this matter and will be answered by the school spokesperson. The relevant staff of the Haidian District Education Committee said that they have been informed of this matter and are still understanding it.
Zhongguancun’s Second Small Response: Let Educational Problems Return to Campus.
On the morning of the 10th, Zhongguancun No.2 Primary School in Haidian District, Beijing responded, saying that "the school will continue to make efforts to achieve the results recognized by many parties" and appealed to "the media and the public who care about this matter, from the perspective of protecting the healthy growth of minors and maintaining the normal educational order of the school, let the educational problems return to the campus for processing". The original response is as follows:
Thanks to the long-term concern and support from all walks of life, our school has been earnestly implementing the spirit of the documents of the Ministry of Education, Beijing and Haidian District Education Committee, always adhering to the principle of educating people, adhering to the school philosophy of No.2 Primary School, caring for and caring for every student in the school, adhering to the educational responsibility, and striving to make every student grow up healthily and happily.
Recently, an incident between three middle school students and their parents in our school has aroused social concern. Since its inception, the school has been actively trying to coordinate and objectively and fairly handle the related demands and contradictions and disputes between several parents. In line with the principle of protecting the legitimate rights and interests of every minor child, especially the injured minor mentioned in the incident, the school will continue to make efforts to achieve the results recognized by many parties.
In addition, in view of the recent false statements about our school and related events on the Internet, our school will reserve the right to safeguard the reputation of students and the school through legal channels, and hold relevant subjects accountable.
Here, we sincerely appeal to the media and the public who are concerned about this matter, from the perspective of protecting the healthy growth of minors and maintaining the normal educational order of the school, to let the educational problems return to the campus for processing. We sincerely accept the supervision and help from all walks of life!
Zhongguancun 2 nd Primary School, Haidian District, Beijing
December 10, 2016
Experts say that children’s psychological trauma needs a long time to adjust.
Zong Chunshan, director and researcher of the Beijing Youth Legal and Psychological Counseling Service Center, said that school bullying can be divided into two types: mental and physical, and mental bullying includes nicknames, verbal attacks and insults, isolation and exclusion. Physical bullying is violence. If the facts are as stated by the parents, the children are bullied both physically and mentally. In addition to these two criteria, the subjective feelings of victims are also important criteria in school bullying.
Zong Chunshan said that it takes a long time to adjust the child’s psychological trauma, professional psychological intervention, family warmth, and an apology from the perpetrator. School bullying is the result of the interaction of various factors. Both the bullied and the abuser need the attention and help of teachers and parents. (This article Source: Jinghua Times, People’s Daily)
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